Browsing Category

Parenting

Parenting

To Quit Or Not To Quit?

Ah, now that is the mom question of the decade! In the last ten to twenty years, there has been an explosion of extra-curricular activities.  And it is a multidimensional, 3-D explosion.  There are now a million types of activities, offered for more ages and with an alarmingly intense level of competition. It’s enough to intimidate Rocky Balboa.  That being said, some kids love it.  That being said, some kids don’t. You don’t want your child to be a quitter but,…

Continue Reading

Parenting

Does Your Child Know How to Work?

At an appointment this summer, the doctor, being polite, asked my Emily what she was doing on her time off from school.  She launched into a dissertation of sorts on her activities – a job at J Crew, some babysitting, two classes at the community college, etc, etc.  The doctor, rather surprised at the list, looked at me and said, “How do you get her to do all that?” I must of looked rather baffled because I didn’t know what…

Continue Reading

Parenting

Does Your Child Need A Friend?

If only my child had one good friend… Ahhh, how many times I have thought this!   A good friend, a really good friend – is worth their weight in gold—a childhood friend that is loyal in the face of peer pressure, like-minded in values, kind and thoughtful, and… I could go on and on.    My oldest has that kind of friendship. It began in pre-k and has survived twenty years of peer-pressure, puberty, boyfriends, and separation in different colleges.…

Continue Reading

Parenting

Tweens Aim For Fame Above All Else

Because I work at iMOM, I read so much about the negative effects of media on children.  Sometimes, parents don’t like what they read and choose to believe that TV, movies, music, and videos really don’t impact children as much as we think they do.  But it does, according to what I read today.…

Continue Reading