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Be Thankful You Have A Partner In Parenting

There are times when we would all like to throw our spouse overboard. But no matter how imperfect your spouse is as a parent, most single moms (and dads) would tell you to appreciate the fact that you have help and support in the parenting game. After listening to lots of single parents and the challenges they face, I realize it’s a great privilege to have someone to tag-team with when parenting is overwhelming! Being partners in parenting is actually…

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Marriage

Shaunti Feldhahn Book Give Away

This is my friend Shaunti–I love her.  And I just saw her last week at the Hearts At Home Conference. This woman has it going on in places that I can only dream of going.  She gets men and she gets women and what’s more she gets how to explain them to each other.  This is a RARE gift!  Mark and I have read her books, used her books in our relationship and used her books with our kids.  Another…

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Confession: My Husband and I Struggle

  There is this misconception that I have it made being married to Mr. Family First, Mark Merrill.  People love my husband, with good reason.  He is all about people and most of all his wife and children.  He lives, breathes and eats family as the founder and president of Family First, author of All Pro Dad, speaker, blogger and on and on! However, he is human–a very good sort of human, but human none-the-less.  And so I struggle at times to…

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He Had A Bad Day–I Made It Worse

Today was a really hard day for my husband. I believe when I am a “good” wife I have the ability to make a bad day better.  I can make him smile. Today I did not.  I was disgruntled.  I was selfishly bent on voicing my needs and a directive on how he could and should be a “good” husband. I did not know it would be a hard day.  Things just happened. But I do know, now, that I…

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When a Cheeto Marries a Dorito

When a Cheeto marries a Dorito it can work, but it is not easy because they are different chips. I am a Cheeto – mild, munchy crunchy, not very sharp and predictably cheesy.  My husband is a Dorito – bold, powerfully crunchy, sharp if you are not careful how you chew and often accompanied by dips. We look alike – both chips, but we operate very differently. Sometimes the Cheeto doesn’t want to be in the same bowl with the…

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Sorry Flowers

The sorry flowers delivery was ten days in the making.  I moved on Friday, in the Florida, August heat, after a year of not seeing my stuff  that was boxed by strangers after the flood and stored for a year.  I unpacked, sorted, sifted, and purged for four days until 2:00 a.m. because the workman were demanding my attention from 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m. and I couldn’t get in, out and around them to unpack. On day five, I loaded…

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