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Susan Merrill

Encouragement

Saying Goodbye to Santa

I know I know, you said goodbye weeks ago.  Well, I didn’t. I put it off and I have a reason.  My mom was born right before Christmas and I was born right after.  When you have a Christmas birthday and the decorations go up it invokes double the excitement.  This is my time of year, my only time, Christmas and birthday in one. My mom never let my birthday get lost in the holiday because hers was at Christmas,…

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Parenting

Birthorder

We have the strangest of birth orders in my family.  It has made life interesting. My husband and I started with an oldest (girl), middle (girl) and baby (boy) for nine years.   Then we adopted a firstborn (girl)  the same age as my middle—literally two weeks apart in age, and a first born boy, but middle child, the same age as my biological first born male baby!  Are you confused?  So were my kids. Looking back it was a comical…

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Encouragement

Linus is not Lyin to Us

He knows the real meaning of Christmas. We all need a Linus – someone in the midst of our Charlie Brown frustration to calmly refocus our attention.  There are two nuances I love about this clip.  The first is that everyone is literally in the “dark” about the meaning for Christmas until Linus says “lights please” and standing in the light, sheds light on the true meaning by reciting the Word of God.  The second is when Linus says “and…

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Encouragement

My House is a Mess

The reality is I really don’t care.  Yes, I do.   Well not enough to really do anything to change it—for more than a week. It would be so interesting to walk in somebody else’s shoes for a while—somebody that actually puts their shoes away.  I might learn an alternative lifestyle.  I went to a friend’s house this morning.  I go there every week to pray with five long time friends.  Her house is always put together.  Not just clean but…

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Parenting

It Makes Me a Little Crazy When My Kids Lie

Sometimes, moms just have this nagging sense that something is not ringing true, but they can’t act on it because they don’t know what it is. Three of my children were/are prone to lying.  One child lied out of pride.  If she did something wrong she would be so ashamed she would rather lie than admit it.  Her lying was fairly easy to address.  When she was little, if she lied to cover up something we would sit down with…

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Parenting

Thankful Children

What are children most thankful for this Thanksgiving?  Deep down, we know they’re really thankful for the important things in life, like family and friends.  But, of course, that’s not always what comes to their mind first.…

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