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Susan Merrill

Encouragement

My Up Hill Battle With a Down Hill Payoff

Two weeks from today.  That’s all I have left.  For 30 days now I have been in an up hill battle to get in shape for the opportunity to take my son skiing.  The battle really began on February 3 when I had heart surgery – an ablation – to fix an electrical impulse in my heart that sends it to 220 whenever it feels like it.  It was my second ablation and one of a dozen heart surgeries (I…

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Parenting

Don’t Let Them Drive Away

Unless they are ready.  I have taught three children to drive.  It is not my favorite thing to teach.  Not because my kids weren’t good drivers.  No, I don’t enjoy it because it is contrary to my every instinct, as a mom, to put my child in a dangerous situation. And driving is dangerous! But, it is a part of life and we can’t sweat it. But we can think about it real hard! So, I did.  Here is what…

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Parenting

Baby 1 Turned 21!

And it was soooooo much fun!  All of a sudden these girls are grown up – beautiful, smart, witty – and a blast to be with.  I love my Meggie and I have loved every minute of the sweet privilege of 21 years of being her mom!  …

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Encouragement

Damsel in Distress

Last week I saw a musical that is headed to Broadway in March.  It is called Wonderland.  The most comedic number in the play is called One Knight. Alice in Wonderland is a working mom.  Her almost ex-husband, Jack, becomes her white knight and rescues her as a damsel in distress.  Of course, Jack is more like a smooth operator with over-exaggerated boy band,  *NSYNC moves. I don’t think it’s just me or Alice or Anita Renfroe (in the video below)…

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Marriage

Marital Commitment is a Synergistic Multiplier.

Like those big words?  It is my fancy answer to this question I was asked: How does commitment play into relationship success? My theory is that commitment is a synergistic multiplier.   Committed couples have twice the energy, twice the creativity, and twice the intelligence. They feed off of each other, enable each other and encourage each other.  They give each other the boldness to do and go where they probably wouldn’t go alone.  They stand behind each other and contradict enemy…

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Marriage

3 Things To Stay Connected To My Husband

As a contributor on Loveishere.com I was asked this question… Get an Oscar, get a divorce? University of Toronto study shows that women who win an Oscar are more likely to get divorced. How can couples in high performance careers keep their relationships on track? Here is my answer… Oscar winners like Sandra Bullock are not the only ones who are busy.  If you have children in your home you are a high performance couple!  Last week my husband was out…

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